Now that you know my STARTING POINT here’s how I gained the MOMENTUM to press forward to overcome obstacles and get to the next level.
The easy answer would be to tell you that I just clicked my heels three times and things magically occurred. But of course, that only happens in Fairy Tales. As I said before I’m a girl who deals in REALITY not magic.
Rather than clicking my heels I started moving my feet, got off my butt, and stop wasting my time watching Reality shows–[which I call Fake TV] then I and started learning to do the things that would provide me with the ability to T-A-P into PRINCIPLES that motivated me to shift gears and ultimately change my life.
If you’ve read a few of my previous posts, then you’re probably familiar with these PRINCIPLES…but for anyone who’s new to my site here’s that information again:
T–Talents, Tenacity, Time, Teamwork, Tools and Technology.
A– Abilities, Ambitions, Associates, Assets, Affiliations, and Aspirations
P–Passion, Purpose, Potential, People, Productivity, Products, Performance, Power, Profits
to achieve
PRAISE & PROSPERITY
I encourage anyone seeking to get out of the rat race or off the hamster wheel going nowhere to utilize these strategies or create your own to define your TRUE self.
You see, doing something different isn’t for the faint of heart because achieving success in any endeavor doesn’t come easy. NO, it doesn’t happen overnight either…at least it didn’t for me or anyone that I know personally. It usually takes time, dedication, sacrifices, and a bit of grit and determination in order to accomplish your goals.
Visualization is great, creating an action PLAN and goals are good too, but YOU must have CONFIDENCE [and FAITH] to execute those plans along with the PERSEVERANCE to keep going when you’re faced with difficulties (and the naysayers who are quick to discourage your efforts).
So YOU can’t spend your time being concerned about what other people think or are saying about what you’re doing. I can assure you that plenty of tongues will be wagging about YOU when folks figure out that you’ve decided to do something different from what is considered Normal [that’s a future posts, “Don’t Call Me NORMAL!”]
As I was saying; Instead of worrying about what people were saying about me I made it my mission to give them something to talk about. My husband and I love the song: ‘Let’s Give Them Something to Talk About’. If you’re more concerned about what other people think or are saying about YOU then there’s no way that you’ll be able to manifest your DREAMS due to your need to fit in with the crowd or fear of rocking the boat.
In order to get ahead in life you MUST be willing to do something that most people would probably not agree with and have the COURAGE to step away from the crowd that exists within your COMFORT zone.
It’s sort of like when you’re riding a bike or driving a vehicle that’s set only in first gear… You have to shift gears in order to accelerate and move to the next level or you won’t get very far. Sometimes you may be fortunate enough to coast downhill, but sooner or later you still need to shift gears in order to gain any traction. So I made up my mind to put the pedal to metal and invest my energy in REDEFINING myself in order to be the person I aspired to be….rather than settling for living according to my circumstances.
One of the first things I did was to complete a SWOT analysis in order to clarify my assets and abilities.
STRENGTHS
WEAKNESSES
OBSTACLES (and OPPORTUNITIES)
THREATS (TALENTS & TEMPERMENT)
Completing this analysis helped me to realized how the things I’ve previously done worked together to shape who I am Today. Believe me nothing was wasted because over time it all had a particular PURPOSE in impacting my GROWTH and DEVELOPMENT.
I then used the information from my SWOT analysis to draft a CONCEPTUAL PLAN that outlined my P-FACTOR PRINCIPLES. [But in the meantime, I still had to do a few more odd jobs to make ends meet]. Yet it was the results from my SWOT analysis that provided me with the determination to shift gears and change directions in order to live a more PRODUCTIVE life.
Might I suggest that you to use the SWOT analysis as a tool to do what I did….
Determine your PURPOSE
Define your GOALS
Create your VISION
Actualize your MISSION
One of my personal saying [that I refer to when facing DIFFICULTIES] is: “Out of a Negative comes a Positive.” I believe that it is the NEGATIVE (which are those experiences that you regret when you’re going through them) that become the driving FORCE that create POSITIVE changes
[But, that is only for the people who are willing to see the BLESSING in the LESSON rather than just become conditioned to having a victim MENTALITY]. Otherwise the mistakes you’ve made will be repeated because you didn’t learn anything or you failed to take any accountability for the part that you played in the situation.
You don’t always have to know where you’re going when you decide to shift gears or have a map that outlining what direction you want to go, but you must be open new IDEAS in order to expand your HORIZONS.
Of course I’m still a work in progress because GOD isn’t finished with me yet. I invite you to continue following me on my journey to see where life takes me…and of course
see what I do next.